Ok I really really REALLY need help! I feel so lost I want to cry.
Here is an update on Lilly’s potty training experience.
Pretty much done except for nights and naps. She is either at home, or at my moms house and tells us whenever she has to pee. She usually is naked (so much easier) and just goes as she needs to without us having to tell her to go. She has a small potty on the floor in the living room. I can’t keep her potty in the bathroom at my house, because you have to go through the kitchen to get to the bathroom and we don’t allow her in the kitchen. Problem #1.
Yesterday, she started this new thing of sitting on the potty and leaning back as she pees and it shoots OVER the seat and ALL OVER the floor. Of course she doesn’t understand the whole concept of sitting back to not have that happen.
I have been really afraid to leave my house with her to go shopping, out to eat, Sea World, etc. She is wearing little panties and has been doing great. I did buy her that little travel potty and keep it set up in the back of my SUV.
Here’s adventure #1 to Joann Fabrics the other day…
I put her potty under her stroller. She didn’t pee before we left so I knew she would have to go. Walking down an isle she said “peepee!” so I sat her potty right there in the middle of the isle (sorry people. I have a kid who will pee all over if I didn’t) and sat her down on it. Nope. She said “no peepee” got up and ran down the isle naked. Oy. I put her back in the stoller and we left. Before we get in the car she says peepee again. I put her on the potty in the car and she doesn’t go. I buckle her up and she said she had to pee. I took her back out and placed her on the potty. Nope. I’m sure people in the parking lot were watching me wondering what the heck I was doing for so long!
We drive home (about 4 miles?) and at the bottom of the freeway she said “peepee mom! peepee!” so I pull into a gas station and grab her out and set her on the potty. Nope. She won’t go. Maybe she has pee fright?? I put a diaper on her because I just can’t stop every 30 seconds. We get home and she keeps saying peepee. I run her upstairs, pull her diaper off and she ran to her potty and peed like a full cup worth. It was a lot and the diaper was DRY! So that’s good. But not good that she won’t use her potty on the go.
Onto adventure #2 tonight at Souplantation…
I brought along with me her potty seat in her diaper bag (it folds flat) and some extra clothes. We get to our table and she holds herself saying she has to pee. I run her with her potty seat to the bathroom. I put the potty seat on the toilet (it becomes one of those) and she screamed.. she did not want to be on it. SO I set it up on the floor. Nope. No pee. I put her clothes back on and go to the table. I go get food and come back and she is crying “peepee!!” and I take her back to the bathroom and she has a little bit of pee in her undies but just a little dribble. She refuses to go in the potty. I just don’t know what to do at this point… she refuses to go on her potty or the big potty and I was left with the option of letting her scream in the bathroom or put her in her diaper. I put her in the diaper and we go back to the table.
After about 3 minutes at the table she cries “mama… peeepeeeeeee!!!” and looks down and I knew she had peed and she was looking at me like what did I do? She was doing really well holding it in but just wouldn’t go when she needed to.
Now here’s my dilemma… (in case you haven’t noticed)— how the heck do I get her to go in either her travel potty or a big potty so I can actually go outside my house with her?! I feel like such a failure putting her in the diaper 🙁 I also feel like I can’t leave my house do go do anything since she has pee phobia of any potty outside of her own! PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW and help me as to what to do!! I have tried putting the travel potty in the living room by her regular potty. I really don’t want to carry her Baby Bijorn potty everywhere I go (I mean I could make a cute bag for it to throw it on the stroller but how to clean on the go??) Should I train her for the big potty and HOW??
I feel lost and I need help PLEASE!
THANK YOU!
Justine
Hills, I have no advice for you but thank you for a good laugh. I might also add that you are scaring the crap out of those of us who have yet to do the whole kid thing… 🙂